Come to my house! What do you need?
If my friend disclosed to me, I think I would want to know whether she felt safe at that moment. I'd ask what she needed from me, how I could help in terms of talking, getting off-campus, or, whatever, really. Depending on how she was, if she needed medical services, I feel like I would offer a lot of supports and accommodations. I would be like, "Come to my house! What do you need?" And probably after a while, we would talk about whether she wanted to disclose to other people and whether I could be a support person through that process. If someone came and disclosed to me, I would assume that maybe they wanted me to be a part of the process. So I would try to help navigate it. As a friend, I would look up the sexual assault policy, and I would even call the counsellor and pretend I'm her. I would just be one hundred percent on her side to figure out how we could do it.